Empowerment, body positive, self love. Are you still here? Great, then this ultimate guide is for you! Boudoir Photography is for women who want that boost, no need it; desire it. I want to share a secret with you, I want you to understand from start to finish how Boudoir is the ultimate experience. Boudoir is for every body. We bring you a body positive experience with all the sensual, intimate and even erotic touches that really make this a luxe service not to be missed.
But first, here is me in all my glory with every lump, bump and dimple exposed. Why? Because in order for you to understand and really appreciate what I do, I need to completely expose myself to you. I am here to show you that beauty is all about your state of mind and internal dialogue.
Type Boudoir Photography into any search engine and you will uncover a range of definitions but the end game of every single sentence is, Boudoir is about you.
This ultimate guide will unpack the whole experience for you so you can truly enjoy yourself during your boudoir session. If you are still on the fence, the idea of this guide is to provide you with a sense of ease, then you can decide if this is an experience for you.
Your boudoir can be erotic, kinky, dark, light, subtle… Its about you and your sexual energy. Our boudoir studio has no limits, well ok maybe a few but we definitely have no judgement. Into asphyxiation? Great, let’s incorporate your kink into your session. Want to bring along your daddy dom? Excellent, pack a few of daddy’s favourites and make a date! You are totally not into all of that and just want some pretty pics in your fave lingerie? Thats ok too! This is about you and for you.
Let gets down to business and start unpacking.
Boudoir with Flick is an all encompassing experience. The luxe service starts the moment you send a message to enquire. Firstly, I love to meet up with you for chai and cake (gluten free of course!) and to go over all the things that are making you nervous. To make a plan for your session.
All our sessions include hair and make up and use of our beautiful boudie studio in Sheffield. It’s one of those spaces that can absolutely transform from a fluffy girly room to a strip club special room to a dungeon with a few slight changes. It’s warm and private. During the meeting we will discuss everything, from your hair and make up loves, to your sensitivities and insecurities. But most importantly we will talk about why you are on this journey.
I will leave you to take some time and to think about your upcoming session and formulate many questions, because that happens every single time. We will start to chat over messenger about outfits and you may even find yourself sending me dressing room selfies from Bras n’ Things for some guidance with your wardrobe choices. More on that later in the post.
You will eagerly count down the days until your session and so will I.
You will be offered wine, gin, vodka, tea, coffee or water whilst you relax and are pampered with hair and make up. I like to give you a mini facial before we start just to help you feel totally relaxed and ready for the experience ahead. After all, its about providing you with a luxe service. We will listen to music and talk, laugh and maybe even cry as we share stories. After you are all dolled up and ready to begin, we will go through your outfits and open up the prop drawer. This consists of everything from the BDSM range at Honey Birdette and beyond. Oh and there is rope in every colour imaginable! Did I mention chains? We will discuss everything as we go and if you are even slightly uncomfortable we will stop and change direction.
After all, this is about you!
At the conclusion of your session you will be offered a private or public sneak peek of your images. Most people keep their collection private and I totally respect that. You will receive some images to view that night. Your final album will be ready for delivery within 4-6 weeks from your session, sometimes earlier because I am too excited for you to see them and give me feedback.
We are a digital delivery studio, that doesn’t mean we don’t offer a beautiful range of professional print options, it just means that we give you a choice what you wish to do with your images.
So what do you wear to your boudoir session?
We don’t all have massive stores of lingerie in our closets, I mean I do. I am addicted to Honey Birdette, I love how they fit, feel and make me look like a queen. I recommend you purchase a few new sets if you don’t have anything special, but you do not have to break the bank. Best n Less, Cotton On and even Target have some great options if you are super budget conscious. If you have time, Shein and online have some great low budget options too.
Being body conscious is completely natural, and as a mum of five I prefer to wear high waisted or body suits during my boudoir sessions. It covers me up and accentuates my curves in all the right ways. For me, it is the right choice.
I always tell my clients to bring along their favourite heels if they want, an outfit that makes them feel super sexy and of course anything special they want to include.
It can be hard to convince yourself that you are worth investing in, but I beg you to look harder in the mirror and realise that you are wonderful. Boudoir is for everyone, and that includes you.
Send me a message today and find out more, or even comment below with any more questions you have.